Turn a Sad Love Story into a Happy One!

Why do we like to hear about a sad love story? When we go through a breakup we like to read sad love stories or watch sad love movies, because we can relate. They can also help to release our anger and grief. Sad love movies can also help to let us know that we are not alone in our pain. Some of these sad love stories can even have a positive happy ending, which gives us hope. There is hope for the future, finding true love, and living happily ever after.

Why do we watch sad love movies when we are in a perfectly happy relationship though? What entices you about a sad love story? Is it the love? We are want to be loved. Watching love movies give you warm fuzzy emotions. And the sad endings happen in life as well. We all hope they will not happen to us, so it is better to watch it happen to someone else, not us.

Watching a sad love movie or reading a sad love story can also bring out the tears. Crying every once in awhile can release the emotions and balance you out. Holding all of your emotions up in a ball is not good. So go and have a good cry, while reading your favorite love story. Do books make you cry? I have cried while reading a good book. Although, I don’t read many sad love stories. I enjoy reading happy romantic novels. However, I sometimes enjoy watching a sad love movie. And I have cried in a lot of them. It feels good to let it out sometimes.

Other times we may watch a sad love movie is when we have gone through a breakup. We like to lock ourselves up in our bedroom and watch movie after movie. Why do we pick a sad love story? Why not a happy romantic comedy? Well, sometimes a romantic comedy will make you even more sad, because you don’t have that happy romance anymore. You can relate to the sad love story. And watching the sad love movies can release any anger and tears that you had stored up. Watching a sad love movie can also remind you, that you are not alone. Many people have gone through bad breakups and they turn out all right at the end of the story.

Laugh at that Sad Love Story
However, after you are done watching a few sad love movies, perhaps you should watch a comedy. Not a romantic comedy, just a regular knee slapping comedy. Something that will get your laughing. Put down that sad love story your were reading and start laughing. Laughing is great medicine for the soul. Distract your mind with some silly movies.

Don’t let those sad emotions tear you up inside. Control your emotions and find joy in knowing that you will find true love one day. You can have a happily ever after. This one sad love story in your life right now is not the end of your story. You may be sad now, but know it will pass. Try to laugh in life more in general as well, not just at the movies. Try to laugh at yourself more. Look for things to laugh at and you will notice that you are laughing more.

Choose to be happy in life. Being happy is a choice. Don’t let sad circumstances affect you so much. Yes, some people are just born more happy than others, but it is still a choice. Choose to be more positive. Look for the good, not the bad. If bad thoughts enter your head, choose to think about good things instead. Change your thoughts to happy thoughts. Don’t dwell on the past and those sad love stories. Think about happy love stories. The more you choose to be happy, you will notice that you will become a much more happier person overall.

So whether you feel like watching a sad love movie or a happy love movie, have fun. Learn to control your emotions. Strive to have a peaceful state of mind. Know that it is a process. Keep trying to be more positive and laugh more. Learn to forgive easily and love more. You will find your happy ending one day. This is not the end of a sad love story, but the start of a happy one.