The Sad Love Story is Back!

It has been a long time since I last posted on this Sad Love Story Faraway Place blog. Well, I am back. Am I back to tell you about my love story that ends with a happy ending? No, not yet. That is still in the works. Yes, I am still on the search for love. True love, and I will not settle until I find it. And none of you should settle either. Never settle! Wait for true love. This post is not really supposed to be about my love story though. I was going to talk about what I am going to do with this blog now. Well, perhaps there is enough time to talk a little about both.

If you haven’t read my Sad Love Story post from about a year ago, then you may want to read it. Or you can just move forward with me. I have lots of hope of finding true love very soon in fact, but all good things come in good time. Patience is key, which I have to keep reminding myself. I think this summer is going to be a great summer of love. I am still on all of the dating sites. I have found a few more to join as well, which I don’t think I am going to mention here. Let’s just say there are tons of dating sites out there. Dating sites that are geared towards people who enjoy specific hobbies or whatnot.

I changed my default picture the other day and low and behold I have received about a hundred emails over a couple of days! Now, I had the one picture in my profile of pictures. All I did was make it my default picture. This picture is not a scandalous picture either. Okay, it is one of those mirror pictures that so many people don’t like. (Why do so many people dislike those pics anyway? I don’t care if a person shows some skin. If they want to flaunt it, I like to look! haha:) But I took the picture from the waist up and I am wearing a tight shirt that covers everything, it is tight though. Anyway, the point is, if you want to attract a lover, make sure your pictures are up to par. And please put up as many pictures as you can. One picture only says you are trying to hide something.

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Anyway, I am so happy things in the love department are looking bright. We will see what happens. Perhaps next time I will post a happy love story, not a sad one. I have been talking a lot to this one guy on the phone and on Skype. He lives out of state though, yes I know, I know. But we have so much in common and he is funny! We will see...

The Future of The Sad Love Story Faraway Place

Back to the depressing love story blog. I have been thinking about trying to write some short tear jerker love stories as ebooks. I have always loved reading romantic stories my whole life. I have written a romantic vampire novel, but it never got past the editing stage. It is now being used to hold up my bed. Well, after all my past relationship woes something has to hold up my bed...j/k. So I was thinking I might try my hand a short stories. I may post some here and would really appreciate it if you would give me some feedback. Now, I just need a kick in the butt to actually start writing and stop dreaming.

I was also thinking I might read and review some great sad romantic stories. Of course, I love romantic vampire novels, but I will try to review some short love stories of all genres instead. Please, let me know of any love stories that are your favorites. I would love to read them and post about them. Until the next sad love story, farewell.

My Sad Love Story

I am searching for love right now. I believe in true love still. I know some people don’t. Some people settle for second best. Not me. I am not going to settle and you shouldn’t either. In order to find my true love, I have to endure the stormy dating waters. I have had my share of bad dates and sad love stories, believe me. And I know we all have experienced some crazy ones. We have to keep fighting though. Fighting through all the bad to find the good. I know “the one” is out there somewhere and I will not rest until I find him.

Do you want to hear my sad love story that is going on right now in my love life? Well, it is really several stories all combined into one.

Let’s see where should I start? Should I start with my very first boyfriend that I had in first grade? (I went up to him) See I have been boy crazy for a long time. No, that is going too far back. I am not really that boy crazy though, I don’t have to have a boyfriend. I have gone around 2 years without even dating at all, I just focused on myself, my work, and family. However, I do want a boyfriend. With my work, I am never around anyone of the opposite sex, so there goes that avenue. I always try to keep my eyes open when I go out shopping. I find that I am usually the one that has to initiate the contact though, I don’t know why. I think some guys are a lot more shy nowadays, than in the past. Perhaps, it is all of that sexual harassment issues still haunting them, even when they are not at work. Or even all the feminism that is going around, where men hardly go up to women anymore. I don’t know, perhaps it is just me, I have been told I am very attractive though. What do you think? Do men just go up to women and try to sweep them off their feet like they did in the old days?

Anyway, back to the present. Back to my heartrending love story. So in order to find true love, I thought I would try an adventure with the online dating sites. I am on practically every dating site right now. I have tried the free ones, and the ones you pay for. Now, I have tried online dating in the past. I was definitely one of the first to try it out of my friends. Over the years that my profile has existed on dating sites, I have had some good dates, but most of them didn’t last past the first couple dates. But when I was in college, I ended up meeting men though friends of friends anyway, at one of their parties. Now that I am out of college I am finding it harder to meet guys. So I have recently been going on a ton of dates, from dating sites. It is a numbers game after all, just like anything else, isn’t it? I figure if I can go on X many dates, then I am bound to find true love. Well, I am not filling that X with a number. I must admit, that I thought I would have found him after this many dates by now, but I haven’t, so I am not putting a number on it. It takes how many dates to find true love? It doesn’t matter, as long as I keep trying, don’t settle, and find him one day!

Now, I am sure some of you may think that I am too picky and that is why I haven’t found a boyfriend yet. Well, I do admit I have my standards and so should you. It goes along with not settling. However, I have also just had some really bad luck, but I will not give up. All it takes is some determination and a little luck, again as with anything else. Well, this post is getting longer than I thought. Now, it is time for the juicy stuff too. This sad romantic story is finally going to get good. Except now, I am having second thoughts about how far I should go into the story. How many details do you want? Well, I will give you a few. Let’s just say that I have had men steal my cash and credit card right out of my wallet! Plus, I had one guy steal my camera, but he wasn’t from internet dating, he was from speed dating! Yes, I did speed dating, and it was really fun, it is not the company’s fault that I met a bad apple and it is not my fault either. I would totally go speed dating again and you should try it too. There are just a lot of bad guys out there. I know the economy is going through bad times, right now, but come on, stealing from your date? They didn’t steal very much from me, it is just the fact that they are thieves!

Of course, I have had the regular bad dating stories as well. Where, the guy says he will call and then never calls. It’s weird isn’t it? You can have the best date ever with a guy. You like everything about him and he seems to like you. He gives you lots of compliments and he talks about other things he wants to do with you in the future. He tells you, that he will call, but then never does! What the hell is that? Why say you are going to call and then never call?

Then of course there is the one night stand man. What is with some guys? A lot of them don’t even want to buy you a cup of coffee anymore. They just want you to come straight to their house to watch a movie! Yeah right! The first rule of internet dating is: always meet at a public place! The other night, the guy was offended that I didn’t want to just drive straight over to his place. His place too, not even my place, he didn’t even want to drive? Can we say lazy! He was like, “What you don’t want to come over, but I just cleaned up my place, I can’t believe you are serious.” Yeah, I am serious. Do not meet someone for the first time at their house. You never know if a guy will rape and kill you. Yes, they may sound like a great guy on the phone, but you never know! And please guys, get off your butts and meet the lady for some coffee or a drink. How hard is that? Yeah, I know you just want to cuddle of have sex on the first date, but at least buy her some coffee first! You may be able to tell, but I didn’t meet the guy the other night. I told him no, only public places. He said he understood, but then he never suggested a place. Oh well, his lost. And the weird thing is, he marked that he was looking for a long-term relationship. He even asked me on the phone if I was looking for the same thing as well, and I said yeah, and he said good. So I don’t know, but I think having sex on the first date, especially before even coffee, is a bit too fast. I like to go a little slower in my relationships. I have had several men ask me to just come over to their house or if they could just come over to my place as well. He is not the only one, it seems to be a trend. I think these ones may have been lying about the long-term thing and they just want to get laid. Weird that they don’t want to get laid for the long-term....hehe, but whatever…

Anyway, this post is now really a rant, not a sad romantic story. Sorry about that. I would love to hear your comments and rants as well. I will post a real heartbreaking love story in the future. I just have to find a man first. I need to find a boyfriend first, I need to be in a serious long-term relationship first right. That way I can give you a truly sad story. Wait, scratch that. Once I find my man, I will not have anymore heartbreaking love stories, because I will truly be in love. I will not give up the internet dating either. I hope all of you know this really was NOT a post to bash internet dating. I love internet dating! I believe there are jerks and fantastic guys everywhere you go. I will not give up and I will find “the one” for me. One day I will find the one who will be waiting for me at the end of the aisle. I will be enjoying a new journey full of love one day with my special someone, and then I will just enjoy reading other people’s stories and watching the sad love movies on the big screen. Good luck to you all in your search for love!

How to Write a Sad Love Story

Have you always dreamed of writing a sad love story? You can write a whole story from beginning to end. You can write a short story or a whole novel. Believe in yourself and just start writing. Make a deadline and meet it, that’s all it takes. Make a word count goal and stick to it everyday. Here are a few tips to get you thinking about how to write your very own story.

The Plot: To create a heartbreaking love story the initial information about the story is important. The beginning is important. When you create anything, you need a solid start to it, so that you have something good to build on. The most enjoyable stories are those that bring out emotions in your readers. If the initial part of the story brings out the happiness of the story, then this will allow you to create the sad ending. Don’t worry too much about how you will get from point A to point B. Just start writing, ideas will come to you as you write. Knowing a general plot is all you need, such as girl meets boy. Boy looses girl and so on…

Creating mood: A key to any sad romantic story, is to create a mood of happiness and joy. You want to make the initial mood as peaceful, happy, and a place that someone would enjoy being. It can be in a physically peaceful and beautiful place, or in a beautiful situation that brings great joy. Try to put a certain mood or conflict on every page. Keep the readers turning those pages, so they cannot wait to see what happens next.

Creating characters you care about: You must make the main players someone that most people would enjoy knowing. When you care about the characters involved in a heartrending love story, you start to appreciate their feelings and their situation. You must also make them people that we see in everyday life so that we all can relate to them. Create strengths and weaknesses in the characters personalities or emotions, that in the future may be used to help create the problems which lie ahead. Give readers a hero or heroine they can relate to, but make them human as well. No one is perfect. Make your bad guys have a motive as well, besides just being crazy.

The first meeting: The next important thing to do is to make the first meeting of the characters real. We all can remember our first meeting with those that we know well, and it is important to make it as real as possible. It will allow the reader to appreciate the meeting as one that happens in everyday in life. Show the love that ignites around the characters. Describe how the characters are feeling when they first meet. Describe how their surroundings affect them.

The relationship: Now it is important for the writer to make the relationship grow into something special. This can be very enjoyable for many writers because you can use your thoughts to make emotional bonds between the characters. Remember that the more you make the subjects care about one another, the more tear jerking love story you will have.

The reasons that make the sad love story: Now that you have a happy story that seems to be going well, you need to create a situation that is too difficult for the couple to overcome. The two major reasons a couple ends their relationship are being unfaithful, or the pressures of dealing with bad money situations. These two problems are used many times in sad love stories. You can also include situations like illness, mental or emotional problems, or even misunderstandings that can not be solved due to a lack of communication. Create a major conflict and a whole bunch of little conflicts, both internal and external, in order to keep the story moving.

The final chapter: It is important now to create a final situation in which the couple cannot overcome their problems. Make sure that you show the emotions of each character and the sadness it brings. Write about their reactions to the problem and show how it affects each character. This will allow your readers to feel the pain of this couple, and will allow them to feel bad for them because of the connection they have with the characters in the story.

The most important thing is to have fun writing your story. Just keep on writing. Remember that this is just a first draft. Nobody’s first draft is 100% ready to be publish. So have fun writing, even if you think it is crap, just keep writing. Write everyday, even if it is just one sentence. Keep writing in order to keep the momentum going. Create characters you love. Give them sexy or wacky personality traits. Create conflict on every page and make you story heartbreaking. Believe in yourself and know that you can write an amazing sad love story!

Reasons People Relate To A Sad Love Story

Why is it that most human beings can relate to a sad love story? Well, there are many reasons, of course, but here are just a few for you to mull over:

It can be easily said that most humans crave love. People are born to give and receive love, and in fact, love is said to be the emotion responsible for most of the things that people do and say. And, unless you are one of those rare people who don't feel anything at all, you can probably relate to needing the connection in your life, as well.

Most people can easily relate to a sad romantic story that was supposed to last forever, but it didn’t, instead it ended badly. Most of us have experienced the same type of heartbreak others experience, at least once in our lives, if not more. So when a person hears about a tragic ending to a love story - or sees a sad love movie - she automatically makes a connection with the person, or actor, she most relates to in regard to her own experience. This also helps a person see that broken hearts are common to most, and helps her to realize she is not alone, she hasn't been singled out for punishment. Bad things happen to us all, we just have to keep moving on. Have hope that one day your story will have a happily ever after.

Misery Loves Company with a Sad Love Story

A heartbreaking love story can opens a person's eyes to see that she's in "good" company when she watches another go through something she has gone through in her own life, especially if the other person's circumstances are worse than her own were. This may seem like a cruel and cold-hearted way for someone to make a connection, but in essence, it helps that person to laugh it off and stop feeling bad about her own life, as she now learns to count her blessings. Life is too short to feel sad for very long. Think about all the good relationships you will have in the future. Think about how you are a stronger person. Know that good will come of this.

A perfect love life all the time makes for boring conversation. It's also a fact that if all the love relationships in the world went off without a hitch, no one would ever want to hear about them - or pay to watch movies about them, either. However, those love affairs that turn out to be train-wrecks are fascinating to everyone - especially if the storyline has to do with love that has become suddenly "unrequited" for no apparent reason, or those in which a third party has become involved. And, look at it this way - without sad love stories, which turn sour, there would be no more need for those popular sad love songs that are such a hit with most people.

So now you know a few of the reasons most people can relate to a sad love story. Whether or not they have noble intentions of being sympathetic by their interest, the fact remains that sadness in love seems to hold a strong attraction for the masses. Many people use them as a great way to cope over their own relationship breakups. They can be a good way to let it all out and then to get your mind off of yourself. There is always someone who had worse relationship stories than you. Love is hard to find, but if it wasn’t, life might be too boring. So lets be happy regardless of what happens and know that one day we will find true love.

The Five Best Sad Love Story Movies

Whether it is star-crossed lovers, unrequited love or any other sort of tragic romance, sad love story movies have the power to touch their viewers. Sometimes people want to watch sad movies for therapeutic reasons. It can feel good to watch a movie and have a good cry. Sad love movies are perfect for sleepovers and girl's nights in. Sometimes a sad love story is just what is called for. So, which are the top five best sad love stories?

Bridges of Madison County. This film is based on the 1992 novel of the same name by Robert James Waller. It was adapted for the big screen in 1995 and starred Meryl Streep and Clint Eastwood. It is a very sad story about a repressed housewife who falls for a traveling photographer while he is on holiday. The film deals with the time they spend together and the tragic ending to their love story. It is a definite tear jerking love story.

Titanic. Titanic is the highest grossing film of all time. However, it wasn't just for the big budget or the amazing special effects. Everyone was amazed by the scenes of the Titanic sinking, but what really tugged the audience's heartstrings was the love story of Jack and Rose. She was a high society girl on the top deck, and he was a penniless artist on the bottom deck. This bittersweet movie had to inevitably end in tragedy. It is one of the saddest love movies in modern cinema.

The Notebook. The Notebook is based on the Nicholas Spark's novel of the same name. It tells a cross-generational sad love story about a couple who find and lose each other. It starred real-life couple Rachael McAdams and Ryan Gosling and they were applauded for having great on-screen chemistry. This is a really sad movie. If you watch it, make sure you have a pile of tissues nearby.

A Walk to Remember. Also based on a Nicholas Sparks novels, A Walk To Remember stars pop star Mandy Moore in her first big screen role. She plays a shy and reserved girl who falls in love with a popular guy from her high school. It is a story about what happens when two social worlds come into contact, and it has a very sad third act.

P. S. I Love You. Shot in beautiful Ireland and staring Hilary Swank and Gerard Butler in the lead roles, P. S. I Love You is a heartbreaking love story that will have almost anyone in tears by the end. It is a story about how love survives after death, and one the most sad love movies of the past decade.

Of course there are hundreds of others sad love movies which have been made. Most Nicholas Spark's novels are big tearjerkers. And there are classics like Beaches, Love Story and Romeo and Juliet. But the films listed here are certainly some of the most truly sad love stories.

Sad Love Story Breakups - Learn From Them

Are you in your own sad love story? Did you just have a bad breakup? How did it happen? At first you were crazy in love and then bam! What can you do to stop breaking up? Will you ever find the one you are meant to be with forever? True love exists and you will find him or her one day. Stay encouraged and positive that you will have a happy love story. This sad love story will pass and you will find your happily ever after. Learn a little more about how you can find your true love.

Learn from the breakup. In order to stop breaking up with people, you need to learn from your mistakes. Everybody makes mistakes, no one is perfect. And that is a good thing! I would not want to live up to someone who is perfect…hehe. :) Look at yourself and how you can improve. I think everybody can always improve themselves. Know that it is a process. Don’t beat yourself up. Love yourself more and love others more. Learn from your mistakes and them move on. Don’t dwell on this one sad love story in your life, for there will be many more happy love stories to come.

Communications is key to a healthy happy love story. Many people breakup and they don’t know why. It may be, because they didn’t communicate to their partner well. Remember, no one can read minds. Tell you lover how you feel. In relationships talk about where you see yourself in the future. Know the other person’s values. Talk about family, kids, religion, politics, and money… I know they say you are not suppose to talk about these topics, but it is very important when you are spending the rest of your lives together. If you don’t share the same values, it can be very difficult to stay together. Make sure that you will have a wonderful love story that will last, not a sad love story.


Many people breakup, because they fight too much. Try to control your emotions and actions more. Yes, it is hard, but you do have self-control. Let your partner win the fight sometimes, just to find the peace. Think before you speak. Don’t let him frustrated or anger you so much, try to maintain a peaceful state of mind. Don’t complain about him. Look for the good things that he does. Most men display their love through their actions, not words. So watch what he does with a loving eye. Try to have a more peaceful loving mind. Think loving happy thoughts, not bad ones. Turn that sad love story into a happily ever after.

When you do fight, forgive easily. Yes, you may not want to forgive him. It can be really hard to forgive, but holding in that grudge can damage the relationship. Forgiving your partner can also be good for you. Holding a grudge damages your soul and happiness. Forgive him easily and be happy. Even if it is his fault, be the better person and forgive him anyway, and then he will probably ask for your forgiveness as well. Forgive the sad love story fights, and feel the weight lifted off of your shoulders.

Trust That You Will Not Have a Sad Love Story

Trust your lover more. Tell your partner how you feel. When you hold things back, they may not trust you and it also means that you do not trust them. If you don’t have trust in a relationship, then it will fail. Open your heart all the way, don’t hold anything back. Don’t be afraid to love, because true love is worth it. If you get hurt, move on and love with all your heart some more. Believe in true love and know that you can have a happily ever after in your very own love story.

Another way to stop breaking up is by giving more compliments and respect. Everybody loves to hear sweet love phrases whispered in the ear. Giving someone a compliment, makes them more happy, which will make you more happy. Try to give your partner one truthful loving compliment everyday. Think about them more, ask them questions about their day, and really listen to them. Don’t make conversations all about you, all of the time. Look for ways to make them happy. Romance them, and wine and dine them more. You could even write some short love poems for them. Go ahead and give it a shot, it is always the thought that counts. Make your own love story last, don‘t make a sad love story.

You can stop breaking up. Believe in true love. Don’t settle for anybody less than the best. No one is perfect, but there is someone perfect for you. Keep searching. Stay positive and happy. Learn from past breakups and move on. Trust more, forgive easily, give out love words, control your emotions, and communicate. Know that you don’t have to live in a sad love story, hold out for your happily ever after.

Turn a Sad Love Story into a Happy One!

Why do we like to hear about a sad love story? When we go through a breakup we like to read sad love stories or watch sad love movies, because we can relate. They can also help to release our anger and grief. Sad love movies can also help to let us know that we are not alone in our pain. Some of these sad love stories can even have a positive happy ending, which gives us hope. There is hope for the future, finding true love, and living happily ever after.

Why do we watch sad love movies when we are in a perfectly happy relationship though? What entices you about a sad love story? Is it the love? We are want to be loved. Watching love movies give you warm fuzzy emotions. And the sad endings happen in life as well. We all hope they will not happen to us, so it is better to watch it happen to someone else, not us.

Watching a sad love movie or reading a sad love story can also bring out the tears. Crying every once in awhile can release the emotions and balance you out. Holding all of your emotions up in a ball is not good. So go and have a good cry, while reading your favorite love story. Do books make you cry? I have cried while reading a good book. Although, I don’t read many sad love stories. I enjoy reading happy romantic novels. However, I sometimes enjoy watching a sad love movie. And I have cried in a lot of them. It feels good to let it out sometimes.

Other times we may watch a sad love movie is when we have gone through a breakup. We like to lock ourselves up in our bedroom and watch movie after movie. Why do we pick a sad love story? Why not a happy romantic comedy? Well, sometimes a romantic comedy will make you even more sad, because you don’t have that happy romance anymore. You can relate to the sad love story. And watching the sad love movies can release any anger and tears that you had stored up. Watching a sad love movie can also remind you, that you are not alone. Many people have gone through bad breakups and they turn out all right at the end of the story.

Laugh at that Sad Love Story
However, after you are done watching a few sad love movies, perhaps you should watch a comedy. Not a romantic comedy, just a regular knee slapping comedy. Something that will get your laughing. Put down that sad love story your were reading and start laughing. Laughing is great medicine for the soul. Distract your mind with some silly movies.

Don’t let those sad emotions tear you up inside. Control your emotions and find joy in knowing that you will find true love one day. You can have a happily ever after. This one sad love story in your life right now is not the end of your story. You may be sad now, but know it will pass. Try to laugh in life more in general as well, not just at the movies. Try to laugh at yourself more. Look for things to laugh at and you will notice that you are laughing more.

Choose to be happy in life. Being happy is a choice. Don’t let sad circumstances affect you so much. Yes, some people are just born more happy than others, but it is still a choice. Choose to be more positive. Look for the good, not the bad. If bad thoughts enter your head, choose to think about good things instead. Change your thoughts to happy thoughts. Don’t dwell on the past and those sad love stories. Think about happy love stories. The more you choose to be happy, you will notice that you will become a much more happier person overall.

So whether you feel like watching a sad love movie or a happy love movie, have fun. Learn to control your emotions. Strive to have a peaceful state of mind. Know that it is a process. Keep trying to be more positive and laugh more. Learn to forgive easily and love more. You will find your happy ending one day. This is not the end of a sad love story, but the start of a happy one.

A Sad Love Story - The Breakup

A love story turns into a sad love story, when your heart breaks. Breaking up from someone you love is very difficult for everybody. What causes breakups? Is there any hope left for you two to get back together? What can you do to prevent future breakups? Do you believe in true love? Does it really exist? Read on to find out a few answers to these love aching questions.

When you first fall in love with someone, you think the two of you will be together forever. You know in your heart that you are suppose to be with them. You know that you will have a happy ever after, but then what happens? Your heart breaks as you watch the wonderful relationship get worse and worse. You watch as your love story crumples into a terribly sad love story. What happened?

What cause two people to break up? Two of the main reasons that many people breakup are because of lack of money, and because of lack of love. Money is very important, we all need it to survive. How people view money can lead to the breakup. Money is not evil, but the love of money is evil. Try to be more content with what you have. You certainly have more money then people living in third world countries. Changing your view of money is one way to keep the relationship together. Don’t spend more than you have and look for ways to romance each other for free, such as writing short love poems for each other. Who cares if they are cheesy. J The key to staying in love is to discuss how each of you view the future together. Work hard to stay in love and make your love life a love story, not a sad love story.

Your love story can be twisted into a sad love story quickly, if you loose the love. Unfortunately, many people stop loving each other. Now when you are in a marriage for years, people get busy. Kids, work, and life can get in the way of the two of you spending quality love time together. And one person may not want to make love as much as the other person, which causes the other person to feel unloved and neglected. It is very important to communicate once again. Communication is key. Talk to each other about how many times you each think that the two of you should be making love. Talk about it, so you know where the other person is coming from. Talk about it to make sure that you are not neglecting them.

When a person feels that they are not getting enough love at home, other people tempt them. And they may put other people out of their minds for years, but if they are neglected over and over again, then the temptation to feel love from someone else is very strong. So again communication is key to keeping your love life healthy, happy, and full of love. Don’t let your love life melt away into a sad love story. Keep the spice alive!

A Sad Love Story Fix?

How do you keep the spice alive? Besides staying in bed a little more, try to romance each other a little more. Think about all the things you use to do when you first started dating, but then you both got too busy, it is now time to take up those things again. Or think up some new hobbies you would both love to experience together. Learning new things can stir up some new passions for the hobby and for each other. Take each other out on dates. Just because you have been together forever, doesn’t mean that you stop liking dates. And it does not have to be expensive either. Go for a walk in the park with a picnic. Or cuddle up together and watch love movies. Give each other more compliments and whisper sweet love phrases into each other’s ears. And don’t forget to really listen to each other. Know that your sad love story can turn into a happy one!


Make your love last. You have to take control, don’t let it turn into a sad love story with a sad ending. Do you believe that true love exist? Since, there is such a high divorce rate, many people do not believe it does. And then there are people who don’t believe in true love, because they just haven’t met them yet. And unfortunately, many of these people settle with someone they do not really love. And then surprise, they breakup. However, that does not have to be how your love story ends. Choose to love your partner more. Don’t complain about your partner all the time, love them instead and watch them change too. People can change back into the person you first fell in love with. Believe in love and believe that you will have a happy ending, not a sad love story.

Breakups do happen. We have all experienced sad love stories at one time or another. However, before you breakup, make sure you have tried with all your heart to rekindle that love. Communicate more about making love and making money. And remember, money is not evil, the love of it is. Fight less and love more. Look for the good things in your partner, not the bad. Stay strong and stay in love. Know that your love life may be a sad love story now, but the two of you can have a bright future full of love.

Is Your Love Life a Sad Love Story?

One day you are madly in love and the next day you are in a sad love story. Now you are experiencing grief, loss, and bereavement. You thought the two of you were head over heels for each other and then what happen? Or perhaps you could see the breakup coming. Whether you have been together for a long time or a short time, we are go through stages of grief. Learning what those five stages are can help us get out of the sad love story and move on to the next happy love story.

Denying the Sad Ending
When your partner first leaves you, it feels unbelievable. You think that everything will be alright in the morning. Or they will call you back soon, perhaps they just got busy. You know that your story ends happily. You know that you are not living in a sad love story. You are in denial and you realize that they are really gone when they never call you back.

Anger
When you realize that he will never call you back, you get angry. You will scream, cry, and yell. It is normal to get angry, but you have to learn to control this anger. You don’t want to lash out at someone who is just trying to be there for you. When you are angry like this, oftentimes you will want to be alone. And this too is normal, take time to get over this anger. Be careful about not getting angry at others or yourself. Try not to blame yourself too much. Don’t let the “what if’s” run around and around in your head. Figure out your mistakes or your partner’s mistakes, learn from them and then move on. Don’t dwell on the past. Don’t let this one sad love story tear you down.

Bargaining for Your Love Story
After you are done being angry you may move on to bargaining. You try to call up your partner and promise to do this and that to get him back. For example, you may sacrifice your friends or hobbies just to make him happy, but that is a mistake. Don’t sacrifice yourself to please someone. You are obviously not meant to be together anyway. Know that you will find the one you are suppose to be with one day. Someone who loves your hobbies and friends. Someone who loves you and all your flaws. Stay strong and know that your sad love story does not have to have a sad ending.

Depression
Next comes depression. This is when you really want to be alone. You don’t go out with friends. You don’t enjoy the same activities that you use to enjoy. You just want to stay in your room and read a sad love story, or watch sad love movies. Know that this too will pass one day. You may feel extremely sad now or even depressed, but one day you will feel happy again. Talk to someone. Find a good friend that you trust or don’t be afraid to find a doctor. Talk about it and pray about it. Don’t let your emotions rule you. Know that you can have a happy love story. Forget this sad love story that is bothering you right now and move on to find the happy love stories.

Accepting the Sad Love Story
And finally comes acceptance. The sad love story is over and it is time to move on to the next chapter in your life. You have learned from the past and now it is time to forget about it, and be full of hope for new love and joy. Choose to be happy and positive in life. Keep looking up with a smile. When you are ready to find someone that truly loves you, put your heart out there. Don’t hold back, just because your heart has been broken. True love exists, you have just not met that person yet. Believe that one day you will have a happily ever after.


Being happy and being sad is a part of life. There is nothing we can do about that, but we can control how we react to the sad parts of life. Remember, that is okay to grieve your loss. Go ahead and grieve, let it all out. Then try to stay strong and positive. Don’t loose hope for the future. Know that bright days are ahead, for there is a time for everything. A time to be sad and a time to love. Keep searching for your true love. Don’t let this one sad love story grab on to you, let it go, and find your happy ending.

Want to Hear a Sad Love Story?

Do you enjoying reading about a sad love story? Or do you enjoy watching love movies that have a sad love story in them? Why do you enjoy such sad stories? Why don’t you like happy ones? Are you such a happy person, that you need a little sadness to balance you out?

I personally like comedy love movies or books with a happy love story. I don’t understand why you would actually want to watch or read about a sad love story. However, then I started thinking about all the sad love stories out there. There are quite a few good classic ones. And then I understood a little more. Although, I still enjoy stories with a happy ending.

Does a sad love story have to have a sad ending? Or can it have a happy ending? I think most people enjoy a happy ending, but sad endings do happen. Life is not all about happy endings, sad things happen in life. It is all a part of life and we have to strive to be happy, despite the bad things that happen to everyone. Besides if everything was happy in the world, how would we know that we were even happy? If we were never sad, how would we know what being happy is? If you don’t know what feels bad, how do you know what feels good? Am I making any sense? Don’t you think it would be a boring world if a sad love story never happened?

Now, I am not some weird masochist that loves pain and sad love stories. I would love to live in a world filled with love and no hate. A world filled with happy love stories. However, it might be a little boring. I am just trying to say that variety is the spice of life. Hmm…maybe I do like to hear about a sad love story after all. I just didn’t even know it.

What is Your Favorite Sad Love Story?

A classic sad love story is the story of Juliet and her Romeo. This story is a classic and is very romantic and very sad. It teaches a valuable lesson too, don’t kill yourself! Because they could have been together and there is always another fish in the sea. There is plenty of love to be found out there. I don’t believe that there is only one soul mate out there. I think there are many soul mates that you are meant to be with. Bad things happen a lot and one’s love may pass away, but does that mean that person is doom to a life of misery for the rest of their life? No, many people move on and find another true love.

What is another sad love story favorite or sad love movie? There is the movie, Titanic, with Leonardo Dicaprio (Jack) and Kate Winslet (Rose). It was one of the biggest love movies! I know I saw it twice in the theater. How many times did you see it? I remember a lot of girls saw it several times. It was a great movie and it was sad. Jack didn’t make it. You wanted him to, but he didn’t make it. Rose was very sad, but she moved on and had a wonderful life. She decided to really live life, full of passion. She want after her dreams and rode horses, and she found another true love as well. So yes, it was a sad love story, but it was also happy, because Jack taught her to really live.

I think we like to hear about a sad love story once in awhile, because we relate. We have all gone through bad experiences. And it is nice to know that we are not alone. Sad things happen to everyone. It is all about how we deal with the ending. Do we continue to make it sad or do we make it a happy ending? Sad love stories help us to learn about ourselves and learn from our mistakes. So we can move on and turn that sad love story into a truly happy ending.