Showing posts with label true love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label true love. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Sad Love Story Breakups - Learn From Them

Are you in your own sad love story? Did you just have a bad breakup? How did it happen? At first you were crazy in love and then bam! What can you do to stop breaking up? Will you ever find the one you are meant to be with forever? True love exists and you will find him or her one day. Stay encouraged and positive that you will have a happy love story. This sad love story will pass and you will find your happily ever after. Learn a little more about how you can find your true love.

Learn from the breakup. In order to stop breaking up with people, you need to learn from your mistakes. Everybody makes mistakes, no one is perfect. And that is a good thing! I would not want to live up to someone who is perfect…hehe. :) Look at yourself and how you can improve. I think everybody can always improve themselves. Know that it is a process. Don’t beat yourself up. Love yourself more and love others more. Learn from your mistakes and them move on. Don’t dwell on this one sad love story in your life, for there will be many more happy love stories to come.

Communications is key to a healthy happy love story. Many people breakup and they don’t know why. It may be, because they didn’t communicate to their partner well. Remember, no one can read minds. Tell you lover how you feel. In relationships talk about where you see yourself in the future. Know the other person’s values. Talk about family, kids, religion, politics, and money… I know they say you are not suppose to talk about these topics, but it is very important when you are spending the rest of your lives together. If you don’t share the same values, it can be very difficult to stay together. Make sure that you will have a wonderful love story that will last, not a sad love story.


Many people breakup, because they fight too much. Try to control your emotions and actions more. Yes, it is hard, but you do have self-control. Let your partner win the fight sometimes, just to find the peace. Think before you speak. Don’t let him frustrated or anger you so much, try to maintain a peaceful state of mind. Don’t complain about him. Look for the good things that he does. Most men display their love through their actions, not words. So watch what he does with a loving eye. Try to have a more peaceful loving mind. Think loving happy thoughts, not bad ones. Turn that sad love story into a happily ever after.

When you do fight, forgive easily. Yes, you may not want to forgive him. It can be really hard to forgive, but holding in that grudge can damage the relationship. Forgiving your partner can also be good for you. Holding a grudge damages your soul and happiness. Forgive him easily and be happy. Even if it is his fault, be the better person and forgive him anyway, and then he will probably ask for your forgiveness as well. Forgive the sad love story fights, and feel the weight lifted off of your shoulders.

Trust That You Will Not Have a Sad Love Story

Trust your lover more. Tell your partner how you feel. When you hold things back, they may not trust you and it also means that you do not trust them. If you don’t have trust in a relationship, then it will fail. Open your heart all the way, don’t hold anything back. Don’t be afraid to love, because true love is worth it. If you get hurt, move on and love with all your heart some more. Believe in true love and know that you can have a happily ever after in your very own love story.

Another way to stop breaking up is by giving more compliments and respect. Everybody loves to hear sweet love phrases whispered in the ear. Giving someone a compliment, makes them more happy, which will make you more happy. Try to give your partner one truthful loving compliment everyday. Think about them more, ask them questions about their day, and really listen to them. Don’t make conversations all about you, all of the time. Look for ways to make them happy. Romance them, and wine and dine them more. You could even write some short love poems for them. Go ahead and give it a shot, it is always the thought that counts. Make your own love story last, don‘t make a sad love story.

You can stop breaking up. Believe in true love. Don’t settle for anybody less than the best. No one is perfect, but there is someone perfect for you. Keep searching. Stay positive and happy. Learn from past breakups and move on. Trust more, forgive easily, give out love words, control your emotions, and communicate. Know that you don’t have to live in a sad love story, hold out for your happily ever after.

A Sad Love Story - The Breakup

A love story turns into a sad love story, when your heart breaks. Breaking up from someone you love is very difficult for everybody. What causes breakups? Is there any hope left for you two to get back together? What can you do to prevent future breakups? Do you believe in true love? Does it really exist? Read on to find out a few answers to these love aching questions.

When you first fall in love with someone, you think the two of you will be together forever. You know in your heart that you are suppose to be with them. You know that you will have a happy ever after, but then what happens? Your heart breaks as you watch the wonderful relationship get worse and worse. You watch as your love story crumples into a terribly sad love story. What happened?

What cause two people to break up? Two of the main reasons that many people breakup are because of lack of money, and because of lack of love. Money is very important, we all need it to survive. How people view money can lead to the breakup. Money is not evil, but the love of money is evil. Try to be more content with what you have. You certainly have more money then people living in third world countries. Changing your view of money is one way to keep the relationship together. Don’t spend more than you have and look for ways to romance each other for free, such as writing short love poems for each other. Who cares if they are cheesy. J The key to staying in love is to discuss how each of you view the future together. Work hard to stay in love and make your love life a love story, not a sad love story.

Your love story can be twisted into a sad love story quickly, if you loose the love. Unfortunately, many people stop loving each other. Now when you are in a marriage for years, people get busy. Kids, work, and life can get in the way of the two of you spending quality love time together. And one person may not want to make love as much as the other person, which causes the other person to feel unloved and neglected. It is very important to communicate once again. Communication is key. Talk to each other about how many times you each think that the two of you should be making love. Talk about it, so you know where the other person is coming from. Talk about it to make sure that you are not neglecting them.

When a person feels that they are not getting enough love at home, other people tempt them. And they may put other people out of their minds for years, but if they are neglected over and over again, then the temptation to feel love from someone else is very strong. So again communication is key to keeping your love life healthy, happy, and full of love. Don’t let your love life melt away into a sad love story. Keep the spice alive!

A Sad Love Story Fix?

How do you keep the spice alive? Besides staying in bed a little more, try to romance each other a little more. Think about all the things you use to do when you first started dating, but then you both got too busy, it is now time to take up those things again. Or think up some new hobbies you would both love to experience together. Learning new things can stir up some new passions for the hobby and for each other. Take each other out on dates. Just because you have been together forever, doesn’t mean that you stop liking dates. And it does not have to be expensive either. Go for a walk in the park with a picnic. Or cuddle up together and watch love movies. Give each other more compliments and whisper sweet love phrases into each other’s ears. And don’t forget to really listen to each other. Know that your sad love story can turn into a happy one!


Make your love last. You have to take control, don’t let it turn into a sad love story with a sad ending. Do you believe that true love exist? Since, there is such a high divorce rate, many people do not believe it does. And then there are people who don’t believe in true love, because they just haven’t met them yet. And unfortunately, many of these people settle with someone they do not really love. And then surprise, they breakup. However, that does not have to be how your love story ends. Choose to love your partner more. Don’t complain about your partner all the time, love them instead and watch them change too. People can change back into the person you first fell in love with. Believe in love and believe that you will have a happy ending, not a sad love story.

Breakups do happen. We have all experienced sad love stories at one time or another. However, before you breakup, make sure you have tried with all your heart to rekindle that love. Communicate more about making love and making money. And remember, money is not evil, the love of it is. Fight less and love more. Look for the good things in your partner, not the bad. Stay strong and stay in love. Know that your love life may be a sad love story now, but the two of you can have a bright future full of love.

Monday, March 1, 2010

Is Your Love Life a Sad Love Story?

One day you are madly in love and the next day you are in a sad love story. Now you are experiencing grief, loss, and bereavement. You thought the two of you were head over heels for each other and then what happen? Or perhaps you could see the breakup coming. Whether you have been together for a long time or a short time, we are go through stages of grief. Learning what those five stages are can help us get out of the sad love story and move on to the next happy love story.

Denying the Sad Ending
When your partner first leaves you, it feels unbelievable. You think that everything will be alright in the morning. Or they will call you back soon, perhaps they just got busy. You know that your story ends happily. You know that you are not living in a sad love story. You are in denial and you realize that they are really gone when they never call you back.

Anger
When you realize that he will never call you back, you get angry. You will scream, cry, and yell. It is normal to get angry, but you have to learn to control this anger. You don’t want to lash out at someone who is just trying to be there for you. When you are angry like this, oftentimes you will want to be alone. And this too is normal, take time to get over this anger. Be careful about not getting angry at others or yourself. Try not to blame yourself too much. Don’t let the “what if’s” run around and around in your head. Figure out your mistakes or your partner’s mistakes, learn from them and then move on. Don’t dwell on the past. Don’t let this one sad love story tear you down.

Bargaining for Your Love Story
After you are done being angry you may move on to bargaining. You try to call up your partner and promise to do this and that to get him back. For example, you may sacrifice your friends or hobbies just to make him happy, but that is a mistake. Don’t sacrifice yourself to please someone. You are obviously not meant to be together anyway. Know that you will find the one you are suppose to be with one day. Someone who loves your hobbies and friends. Someone who loves you and all your flaws. Stay strong and know that your sad love story does not have to have a sad ending.

Depression
Next comes depression. This is when you really want to be alone. You don’t go out with friends. You don’t enjoy the same activities that you use to enjoy. You just want to stay in your room and read a sad love story, or watch sad love movies. Know that this too will pass one day. You may feel extremely sad now or even depressed, but one day you will feel happy again. Talk to someone. Find a good friend that you trust or don’t be afraid to find a doctor. Talk about it and pray about it. Don’t let your emotions rule you. Know that you can have a happy love story. Forget this sad love story that is bothering you right now and move on to find the happy love stories.

Accepting the Sad Love Story
And finally comes acceptance. The sad love story is over and it is time to move on to the next chapter in your life. You have learned from the past and now it is time to forget about it, and be full of hope for new love and joy. Choose to be happy and positive in life. Keep looking up with a smile. When you are ready to find someone that truly loves you, put your heart out there. Don’t hold back, just because your heart has been broken. True love exists, you have just not met that person yet. Believe that one day you will have a happily ever after.


Being happy and being sad is a part of life. There is nothing we can do about that, but we can control how we react to the sad parts of life. Remember, that is okay to grieve your loss. Go ahead and grieve, let it all out. Then try to stay strong and positive. Don’t loose hope for the future. Know that bright days are ahead, for there is a time for everything. A time to be sad and a time to love. Keep searching for your true love. Don’t let this one sad love story grab on to you, let it go, and find your happy ending.

Want to Hear a Sad Love Story?

Do you enjoying reading about a sad love story? Or do you enjoy watching love movies that have a sad love story in them? Why do you enjoy such sad stories? Why don’t you like happy ones? Are you such a happy person, that you need a little sadness to balance you out?

I personally like comedy love movies or books with a happy love story. I don’t understand why you would actually want to watch or read about a sad love story. However, then I started thinking about all the sad love stories out there. There are quite a few good classic ones. And then I understood a little more. Although, I still enjoy stories with a happy ending.

Does a sad love story have to have a sad ending? Or can it have a happy ending? I think most people enjoy a happy ending, but sad endings do happen. Life is not all about happy endings, sad things happen in life. It is all a part of life and we have to strive to be happy, despite the bad things that happen to everyone. Besides if everything was happy in the world, how would we know that we were even happy? If we were never sad, how would we know what being happy is? If you don’t know what feels bad, how do you know what feels good? Am I making any sense? Don’t you think it would be a boring world if a sad love story never happened?

Now, I am not some weird masochist that loves pain and sad love stories. I would love to live in a world filled with love and no hate. A world filled with happy love stories. However, it might be a little boring. I am just trying to say that variety is the spice of life. Hmm…maybe I do like to hear about a sad love story after all. I just didn’t even know it.

What is Your Favorite Sad Love Story?

A classic sad love story is the story of Juliet and her Romeo. This story is a classic and is very romantic and very sad. It teaches a valuable lesson too, don’t kill yourself! Because they could have been together and there is always another fish in the sea. There is plenty of love to be found out there. I don’t believe that there is only one soul mate out there. I think there are many soul mates that you are meant to be with. Bad things happen a lot and one’s love may pass away, but does that mean that person is doom to a life of misery for the rest of their life? No, many people move on and find another true love.

What is another sad love story favorite or sad love movie? There is the movie, Titanic, with Leonardo Dicaprio (Jack) and Kate Winslet (Rose). It was one of the biggest love movies! I know I saw it twice in the theater. How many times did you see it? I remember a lot of girls saw it several times. It was a great movie and it was sad. Jack didn’t make it. You wanted him to, but he didn’t make it. Rose was very sad, but she moved on and had a wonderful life. She decided to really live life, full of passion. She want after her dreams and rode horses, and she found another true love as well. So yes, it was a sad love story, but it was also happy, because Jack taught her to really live.

I think we like to hear about a sad love story once in awhile, because we relate. We have all gone through bad experiences. And it is nice to know that we are not alone. Sad things happen to everyone. It is all about how we deal with the ending. Do we continue to make it sad or do we make it a happy ending? Sad love stories help us to learn about ourselves and learn from our mistakes. So we can move on and turn that sad love story into a truly happy ending.